Redefining "Winning" in Divorce
A New Definition of Divorce
by Renee Natvig
When most people think of divorce, they often think of courtrooms, judges, and contentious legal battles. In fact, over 95% of divorces are settled outside of court. There are several ways to end a marriage without ending up in a court of law.
Couples who want to divorce and who can easily discuss their marital business can complete the documents themselves or hire a mediator to help. For other couples who need more support negotiating a dissolution, deciding how to divide marital assets, and how to work in the best interests of the children, getting the help of a Collaborative Divorce Team can save them from spending precious time, money and energy fighting with one another. Instead, their team of professionals works with them to craft a settlement that is acceptable and agreed upon by both parties.
While no divorce is perfect, and every divorce involves pain, winning doesn't have to mean anyone losing. Listen to my interview with Elaine Silver as we work to redefine "winning" in divorce.
You can watch the entire interview here or listen to the audio here.
Renee Natvig, LCSW is a psychotherapist who specializes in relationship therapy and individual therapy for adults. As a Collaborative Mental Health Facilitator Renee works with other Collaborative Professionals to support people who have decided to divorce but who want to do so in a more respectful, peaceful way. Renee can be reached at 407-625-3134 or at [email protected].